uit: Rush University Medical Center (2010, January 20). Three key factors to help children avoid social rejection identified. ScienceDaily.
The studies indicate that some children have difficulty picking up on non-verbal or social cues.
According to McKown, "They simply don't notice the way someone's shoulders slump with disappointment, or hear the change in someone's voice when they are excited, or take in whether a person's face shows anger or sadness."
A second major factor is that some children may pick up on non-verbal or social cues, but lack the ability to attach meaning to them. The third factor is the ability to reason about social problems.
"Some children may notice social cues and understand what is happening, but are unable to do the social problem solving to behave appropriately," said McKown.
A child who can take in social cues, recognize their meaning and respond appropriately, and who is capable of "self- regulating," or controlling behavior, is more likely to have successful relationships.
"The number of children who cannot negotiate all these steps, and who are at risk of social rejection, is startling," said McKown.
Nearly 13 percent of the school age population, or roughly four million children nationwide, have social-emotional learning difficulties....